Act like a Professional in Office... Not silly and stupid.... An Irritating circumstance

Well today I am writing this with utmost irritation and annoyance.

Last Monday night around 9 pm when I was browsing the internet, I got a message in my mobile with 'Hi'. It is from unknown number.

The big mistake which I did is, I replied with 'Who is dis?'. I am feeling bad each and every minute for it.

Message conversation went like this. (i hv tried to give exact words of my conversation as far as I remember. But concept is same)

Unknown: Are you my friend?

Me: I don't think so. What is your name and your friend's name?

Unknown: Well you are my friend. You dont know me but I know you.I wanted to be your friend

Me: Well I think you are looking for wrong person. I think I am not the one you are looking for.

Unknown: I know you are a great engineer in HCL.

Me: My God.. who are you? How do u know me. But I believe you are also an HCLite. I never share my number to anybody.

Unknown: Yes I also work in HCL. I have seen you quite and calm. I want to be friend. If you are my good friend one day I ll show myself.

I got annoyed. But since the person seemed to be my colleague, I wanted to know who is he. Since he said he will tell about himself only I accept his friendship, I said 'accepted'

But I did not get any information about that stupid.

I asked my colleagues by showing the number to them. But they cannot either catch the person.One of my colleague tried to call him. But phone was switched off. Monday eve I got a meesage

Unknown: 'Did u find me?'

Well he thought that I have no other business in this world other than to find him. He is not at all ready to tell who is he.

The next day he messaged 'I know you enquire about me to your friends'
Next shock. So the culprit is somewhere around me. My colleagues are more eager to see the person as I am.

Next day,

He said 'I saw you. You also saw me today'. Well after this incident I started to look out all the guys crossing me.

Well he was able to tell the colour of my dress with design in it.

From above incident what I try to convey is, if you don't have any work why are you disturbing others. It looks ackward when one play's hide and seek not for any valid reason.

I cannot judge the person's attitude, what he is expecting from me. My colleagues are saying some girl is doing it for fun. But I don't have any such friend in girls intimate enough to play like this. I am sure this is a guy.

I am always open to good friendship if I find the person trust worthy. But unless I look him in person he cannot win my trust. No guy in this world can earn my friendship without getting trusted. Not only mine but most of the women. Becoz nobody wants to get into trouble.

One thing I would like to establish. My parents are not strict but when it comes to my life decision, they wanted me to get married only to a vaishnavate brahmin man. I have no other go other than to opt this since I dont want to spoil their wish being the only child and only daughter of them. Actually speaking I would rather prefer that option.

So guys, you really need not scare of me. I will not trap you in any relationship and/or deceive you later. I can say I am real trust worthy woman.

Dont' be stupid and silly. Act like professionals. No only to guys but also to all women. If you want to be friend of someone, better go to them and befriend them else keep quiet. Do not annoy others.

All people are not alike. Everyone do not encourage this. If you time is bad, they person whom u r annoying can go to the extent of complaining to management.

My team members told me to stop replying. My mother also told me to do this. So I stopped to reply. He messaged whle I was travelling in bus. I dint reply him becoz I was in a crowded bus. So he got angry and told he will not disturb me here after.

I was very happy that some silly stupid thing has been stopped. But my happiness did last only upto next day evening. He started again.

What to do?

Moral : Trust a person fully or do not trust at all. Don't be half baked and bake others.

To the concerned person: If you read this post, I like to say one thing.
"Either show who you are or stop everything."

Other who read this post suggest me:

What can I do?

1. Complain to management
2. Change my SIM
or
3. Any other (please specify)

Tailors are nowadays becoming thieves - Beware of your dresses

This is one of my bad experiences with tailors.

I bought a silk cotton sarree two months back. It is a very nice black saree with workings and border. I really loved to wear it. It has got an attached blouse.

I am not a fashionable woman. All these days I have been very simple. To say somewhat better than ugly. So I decided to stitch it in a fashionable manner but decent.

My mother who is working as Postal Assisstant in T.Nagar Head Post Office has very good network of friends and colleagues. One of them recommended a tailor in T.Nagar Fathima Plaza, Pondy bazaar, named Lucky tailors. He has many customers from Kollywood too. We thought of giving to him since he can stitch me a nice fashinable blouse.

I know to take measurements of blouse for a woman as I have some knowledge in tailoring. But I don't have practice for stitching a blouse. Since it required to take measurements from prohibited places, I wanted my mom to accompany me. (As I already had some embrassing measurement experience for Salwar). The male tailor usually measures for women. As scared he took measurements. But since my mom was near me I was OK.

He told the measurements need some extra bit of cloth to stitch as per my requirement. We agreed. He also instructed to leave sarree to stitch falls. He charged around Rs.400/- for blouse and falls. My mom said ok. But I felt very costly. What to do when we go to tailors who stitches for movie stars I have to pay that. But after this blouse I took a woe that I never go back to him in my lifetime.

I had already had some bad experience that never gives back the cloth in time. My father persuaded me that it is their practice. You have to beg and get back your clothes. I repeatedly insisted him to give the blouse in the time he specified. He nodded the head like elephant.

I contacted him three days after the due date. First shock, he told I didn't had any job of blouse in past three weeks. (A month before I gave him the cloth). I explained the full sarree structure and blouse. Then after a long time he said. Yes I have a sarree like that. Well I will hand over in a week's time. I got my breathe back.

Again after ten days, my mom went to him. He said there was shortage of staffs and please give him some more time. He asked get back in three days. I went to him after five days on a Saturday. I gave him the card. He looked at me. Again asked for the sarree. Anger was about to explode in me. Patiently I explained again. He took the sarree. Thank god sarree was there. But Blouse?

"There was no blouse at all in your sarree. How can we stitch it?". This was the reply I got from him.

One of greatest shock I ever had. While we went to him to stitch the blouse, this stupid is the one who shown us, the attached blouse and told he will need extra bit of cloth to stitch according to my requirement. Now this idiotic old ***** man talks like this.

That is it!!!!

I shouted like anything. He started to argue with me that the sarree never had blouse in it. He was trying to make fool of me. I called my mother to confirm whether it had blouse. She said yes. I confidently fought with that bloody old man for my blouse. But all totally my waste of energy. He is not ready to accept I had given the sarree with blouse.

A Total loss of blouse and time for me.

Well if you go to the tailors, see to it if they note down that blouse was given along with sarree. Ask them to write down in the note book where they note down the measurements.

Please do not go to the tailor in LUCKY TAILORS, FATHIMA PLAZA, 1st FLR,PONDY BAZAAR, CHENNAI - 600017 and lose your cloth.

If you go there, make sure your cloth is insured (if any insurance for clothes is available)