Act like a Professional in Office... Not silly and stupid.... An Irritating circumstance

Well today I am writing this with utmost irritation and annoyance.

Last Monday night around 9 pm when I was browsing the internet, I got a message in my mobile with 'Hi'. It is from unknown number.

The big mistake which I did is, I replied with 'Who is dis?'. I am feeling bad each and every minute for it.

Message conversation went like this. (i hv tried to give exact words of my conversation as far as I remember. But concept is same)

Unknown: Are you my friend?

Me: I don't think so. What is your name and your friend's name?

Unknown: Well you are my friend. You dont know me but I know you.I wanted to be your friend

Me: Well I think you are looking for wrong person. I think I am not the one you are looking for.

Unknown: I know you are a great engineer in HCL.

Me: My God.. who are you? How do u know me. But I believe you are also an HCLite. I never share my number to anybody.

Unknown: Yes I also work in HCL. I have seen you quite and calm. I want to be friend. If you are my good friend one day I ll show myself.

I got annoyed. But since the person seemed to be my colleague, I wanted to know who is he. Since he said he will tell about himself only I accept his friendship, I said 'accepted'

But I did not get any information about that stupid.

I asked my colleagues by showing the number to them. But they cannot either catch the person.One of my colleague tried to call him. But phone was switched off. Monday eve I got a meesage

Unknown: 'Did u find me?'

Well he thought that I have no other business in this world other than to find him. He is not at all ready to tell who is he.

The next day he messaged 'I know you enquire about me to your friends'
Next shock. So the culprit is somewhere around me. My colleagues are more eager to see the person as I am.

Next day,

He said 'I saw you. You also saw me today'. Well after this incident I started to look out all the guys crossing me.

Well he was able to tell the colour of my dress with design in it.

From above incident what I try to convey is, if you don't have any work why are you disturbing others. It looks ackward when one play's hide and seek not for any valid reason.

I cannot judge the person's attitude, what he is expecting from me. My colleagues are saying some girl is doing it for fun. But I don't have any such friend in girls intimate enough to play like this. I am sure this is a guy.

I am always open to good friendship if I find the person trust worthy. But unless I look him in person he cannot win my trust. No guy in this world can earn my friendship without getting trusted. Not only mine but most of the women. Becoz nobody wants to get into trouble.

One thing I would like to establish. My parents are not strict but when it comes to my life decision, they wanted me to get married only to a vaishnavate brahmin man. I have no other go other than to opt this since I dont want to spoil their wish being the only child and only daughter of them. Actually speaking I would rather prefer that option.

So guys, you really need not scare of me. I will not trap you in any relationship and/or deceive you later. I can say I am real trust worthy woman.

Dont' be stupid and silly. Act like professionals. No only to guys but also to all women. If you want to be friend of someone, better go to them and befriend them else keep quiet. Do not annoy others.

All people are not alike. Everyone do not encourage this. If you time is bad, they person whom u r annoying can go to the extent of complaining to management.

My team members told me to stop replying. My mother also told me to do this. So I stopped to reply. He messaged whle I was travelling in bus. I dint reply him becoz I was in a crowded bus. So he got angry and told he will not disturb me here after.

I was very happy that some silly stupid thing has been stopped. But my happiness did last only upto next day evening. He started again.

What to do?

Moral : Trust a person fully or do not trust at all. Don't be half baked and bake others.

To the concerned person: If you read this post, I like to say one thing.
"Either show who you are or stop everything."

Other who read this post suggest me:

What can I do?

1. Complain to management
2. Change my SIM
or
3. Any other (please specify)